Bari Lyman of Meet To Marry presents

LOVE READY

for

THE HOLIDAYS

Stop Spending the Holidays Alone.

Be Ready for Love in 4 Weeks.

You've tried everything but this.

Starting October 27, 2025 (4 weeks)

Only $497

Bari Lyman of Meet To Marry presents

LOVE READY

for

THE HOLIDAYS

Stop Spending the Holidays Alone.

Be Ready for Love in 4 Weeks.

You've tried everything but this.

Starting October 27, 2025 (4 weeks)

Only $497

Here's The Truth You Don't Want To Hear

In [[hanukkah_days]] days, it's Hanukkah. In [[christmas_days]] days, it's Christmas.

And if nothing changes between now and then, you'll spend the

holidays exactly like you spent last year's holidays.

Alone. Making excuses. Pretending you're fine.

But you're not fine.

You want love. You're just terrified to admit how badly you want it.

Here's why you're still stuck:

Therapy (you understand your past)

Self-help books (you know your patterns)

Tony Robbins, Landmark, personal development programs

Yoga, meditation, healing retreats

You're one of the most self-aware people you know.

You KNOW what you need to do.

You just can't seem to DO it.

Because knowing doesn't equal transformation.

And you haven't done the ONE thing that actually creates transformation.

What You Haven't Done

(And Why It Matters)

You haven't identified and cleared the specific blindspot that's

been running your love life since you were 5 years old.

Your blindspot isn't:

Your attachment style

Your "picker"

Your "fear of intimacy"

Your "commitment issues"

Your blindspot isn't:

The unconscious conclusion you made about love by watching your parents' relationship.

The story you decided about yourself when you were too young to know better.

The belief your nervous system absorbed that's been sabotaging every relationship since.

Things like:

"Love means losing yourself"

"I'm not enough"

"There's something wrong with me"

"People always leave"

"I have to be perfect to be loved"

These aren't conscious thoughts.

They're programs running in the background like code.

And no amount of understanding changes them.

You need a process that rewires them at the nervous system level.

That's what Love Ready by the Holidays does.

What Is "Love Ready

by the Holidays"?

This is my signature Bye Bye Blindspots process—the one that's transformed thousands of clients over 15 years.

The one that's usually only available as part of my $10K program.

Now available as a focused 4-week intensive for men and women ready to break patterns.

Not a course. Not more information. A transformation process.

Week 1: The Reality Check (October 27)

You'll complete the comprehensive 20-question Reality Check Assessment.

Then in our 90-minute session, you'll discover:

1. The unconscious "Love Blueprint" programmed into your nervous system

2. The exact pattern you've been repeating (and WHY)

3. How your parents' relationship created your current identity

4. The disempowering story that's been running your life

You'll finally SEE what you couldn't see before.

Week 2: Release the Shame (November 3)

This is where healing begins.

You'll learn:

1. Why it wasn't your fault (and embody this truth)

2. How to stop making excuses for unmet needs

3. The difference between real forgiveness and "saying the right thing"

4. How to get REAL instead of staying safe

Through live "Love Seat" hot seat coaching, you'll watch others

break free—and realize you can too.

Week 3: Create New Neural Pathways (November 10)

This is THE HOW.

You'll learn:

1. The self-parenting practices that rewire your nervous system

2. How to challenge unhealthy thinking in real-time

3. Mirror work that builds genuine self-worth

4. Daily practices that create permanent change

This isn't theory. This is the actual process that

transforms your identity.

Week 4: Embody Your New Identity (November 17)

Integration and implementation.

You'll:

1. Create your empowering statement to guide your future

2. Learn how to recognize healthy love when it shows up

3. Get your personalized roadmap forward

4. Schedule your private 30-minute 1:1 graduate call

Plus 30 days of continued support to ensure the changes stick.

What You Get

4 Live 90-Minute

Sessions:

Every Monday evening, 6:00-7:30pm ET
October 27, November 3, November 10, November 17
Recordings available if you miss a session

Bye Bye Blindspots Revealing Reality Video Curriculum:

Complete video training modules in private members area
Watch at your own pace between live sessions
Lifetime access to all content

Reality Check Workbook

& Guideposts:

Complete 20-question Reality Check Assessment
Comprehensive workbook for deep exploration
Step-by-step guideposts for transformation
Integration worksheets and daily practices

30-Minute Private 1:1 Graduate Call:

Personal session with Bari after Week 4
Personalized roadmap and next steps
Celebrate your transformation

Live "Love Seat" Hot Seat Coaching:

Watch real breakthroughs in real-time
Learn from everyone's patterns
Get coached if you volunteer

Private Community

Access:

Connect with your cohort between sessions
Share wins, challenges, and insights
30-day integration period after Week 4

Bonus for First

10 Registrants:

Extended community access (60 days instead of 30)
"Creating Your Empowering Statement" bonus workshop

This Isn't Just About Love

When you heal the root, everything transforms.

My clients come for love. They get:

More money (they stop playing small)
Clear boundaries (they learn to say no)
Strong communication (they find their voice)
Better health (stress and weight lift)
Freedom to BE themselves (no more performing)

One client said:

"I realized I don't have to live through the lens of my blockages anymore. The sky is the limit now—not just in dating, but in my career and entire life."

This work transcends romantic relationships. It transforms how you show up everywhere.

What People Are Saying About

Bye Bye Blindspots

"Best 2 hours of my life! I had NO idea what I signed up for—

this exceeded all expectations."

"More clarity than 10 years of therapy.

I finally understand WHY everything happened the way it did—and HOW to change it."

"I've been limiting myself in relationships AND my career. I realized I don't have to live through my blockages anymore.

The sky is the limit now."

- Jami

"I learned there's nothing wrong with me.

I don't need to 'fix' myself. I just developed a sense of not needing to fix myself."

- Liora

"The breakthrough was finding out my blockage:

I am not good enough, not worthy! Understanding it wasn't my fault was crucial. I finally understood why I was doing/thinking this way and most important how to reverse it.

I will continue using this tool my whole life."

- Meriem

"I've completely changed how I speak about and view relationships. I'm excited to admit what I want!

I feel positive, happy, and light!"

- Rachael

"I've had several big breakthroughs. I'm learning to love myself. I was waiting until I was perfect. Guess what!! I'm good enough and don't need to strive anymore.

I have such freedom and lightness."

- Lisa

"Digging deep into my silent childhood wounds and expelling them once and for all. I deep down knew my traumas were causing chaos but didn't know how to handle them head on. I feel light, happy, airy.

I am so relieved this is possible!"

- Azucena

"Genuinely feeling like I moved past things,

people and issues from my past. I can now know they did the best they could, but without excusing what they neglected. I feel more free, more vulnerable—I can freely share what I didn't get without feeling shame."

- Wendy

Is This For You?

This intensive is for you if:

You keep attracting the same type of people or situations

You've done therapy, read books, know your patterns—but still feel stuck

You're living in your head instead of your heart

You know what you should do but can't seem to do it

You're ready to stop analyzing and start transforming

You want THE HOW, not more information

You're ready to step into a new identity

You're willing to get REAL and do the deep work

You're tired of spending holidays alone

This intensive isn't for you if:

You're looking for dating strategies or techniques

You want a quick fix or magic solution

You're not willing to examine your childhood patterns

You prefer staying comfortable over transforming

You're not ready to take responsibility for your healing

You want someone to tell you everything is fine as-is

Meet Your Love Strategist

Bari Lyman is the creator of Meet to Marry™ Get Unstuck and the Bye Bye Blindspots method.

For 15 years, she's helped thousands of men and women break free from unconscious patterns and step into the lives they actually want.

Her work has been featured in Match.com, JDate, and SELF Magazine. Stephen Covey praised her method as "Smart, principled, and engaging."

But more importantly:

Bari knows what it's like to say "I forgave my parents" while still acting out patterns.

She knows the difference between

understanding your past and actually healing it.

She knows how to create real, permanent transformation—not just awareness.

And she's going to show you exactly how.

Investment

"Love Ready by the Holidays" has never been publicly available before.

Up until now, this Bye Bye Blindspots process has only been taught inside my highest-level programs and private mentorship containers, where clients invest five figures to access this work.

Right now, you can access "Love Ready by the Holidays" for

⭐

$497

⭐

What This Includes:

4 live 90-minute group intensive sessions

Complete Bye Bye Blindspots Revealing Reality video curriculum

Reality Check Workbook & Guideposts

30-minute private 1:1 graduate call with Bari

Live hot seat coaching

Private community access (30 days, 60 for first 10)

Self-parenting toolkit and integration materials

Bonus workshop for first 10 registrants

Payment Options:

Pay in full:

⭐

$497

⭐

JOIN GROUP INTENSIVE - $497

Want More

Personalized Support?

UPGRADE TO VIP 1:1 EXPERIENCE - $997

Get everything in the group intensive PLUS:

What Makes VIP Different:

Private 90-minute 1:1 Reality Check session with Bari (instead of group)

Personalized blindspot analysis and healing plan tailored specifically to you

Two 60-minute private coaching sessions (Weeks 2 & 4)

Unlimited text/WhatsApp support between sessions

Priority access to Bari for questions

Custom empowering statement creation

All group session recordings (so you benefit from others' breakthroughs too)

VIP is perfect if you:

Want deeper, more personalized attention

Prefer private sessions over group work

Have complex patterns requiring individual focus

Want accelerated results with direct 1:1 support

Total Investment: $997

Save $2,000+ from typical 1:1 rates

Payment Options:

Pay in full:

⭐

$997

⭐

Or

2 payments of

⭐

$550

⭐

Limited to 5 VIP clients only.

UPGRADE TO VIP 1:1 - $997

Still Not Sure? Start with Group,

Upgrade Later

You can always start with the $497 group intensive and upgrade

to VIP during Week 1 if you want more personalized support.

JOIN GROUP INTENSIVE - $497

The Real Question

You have two choices:

Choice 1

Keep doing what you've been doing. Spend the holidays the same way you've spent the last few years. Alone. Wondering why nothing changes.

Choice 2

Do the ONE thing you haven't done. Get THE HOW. Become love ready. Step into the holidays as a different person.

The investment is

⭐

$497

⭐

The cost of staying stuck? Another year alone.

Important Details

"Love Ready by the Holidays" has never been publicly available before.

Up until now, this Bye Bye Blindspots process has only been taught inside my highest-level programs and private mentorship containers, where clients invest five figures to access this work.

When: 4 Mondays - October 27, November 3, November 10, November 17, 2025

Time: 6:00-7:30pm ET (90 minutes each)

Private: Private Zoom link (sent upon registration)

Site: Limited to 25 people

Registration Closes: Friday, October 24, 2025 at midnight (or when we hit 25)

Countdown

[[hanukkah_days]]

Days until Hanukkah

[[christmas_days]]

Days until Christmas

Will you be ready for love by then?

What Happens Next?

1. Click the button below to secure your spot

2. You'll receive immediate access to the

Bye Bye Blindspots video curriculum and Reality Check Workbook

3. Complete the Reality Check Assessment before our first session (October 27)

4. Join us for Week 1 and experience the breakthrough

5. After Week 4, schedule your private

30-minute 1:1 graduate call