It's Your Turn: Your Soulmate is Waiting.
This 90-Day immersive program will radically transform the way you relate to yourself, dating, and relationships to prepare you for a healthy love that lasts a lifetime.
Without compromising what’s important to you, changing who you are, or wasting your time on the wrong people.
Because let’s be honest… You’re a catch.
You’ve done the challenging self-work in therapy, read all the self-help books, and put in the time to become self-aware.
You work hard every day to build the life you want through your career, friendships, hobbies, spirituality, and family.
You want to be in love and in a marriage-focused relationship.
You’ve tried everything to find “the one,” -- online dating apps, match making, and maybe even blind dates.
And you’ve absorbed every piece of dating advice out there from relationship gurus, therapists, happily married couples, and dating experts.
...So why are you still single?
You're tired of wasting your time on dates that go nowhere.
You've been stuck in a cycle of dating optimism and disappointment.
You keep dating the same wrong person over and over again.
You can't seem to find people who are serious about marriage.
You feel like you have to compromise or change who you are.
Every relationship ends in heartbreak and disappointment.
Even so-called “dating experts” offer tricks, backwards advice like “lose weight,” “move to a new city,” “learn how to flirt,” or “get into the minds of men,” and empty promises like, “it’ll happen when it happens.”
How do I know?
I’ve been there.
And I wasn’t able to find my soulmate Michael until I learned to STOP the cycle of dating the same wrong guys and adopt an empowered approach to love.
If I can do it, you can too!
You could stop going on ALL the dates, and ONLY date people with serious potential.
You had a clear vision of the person you need in your life and know with clarity who is the right one for you.
You knew how to find dates who are in full alignment with your values.
You could start building a relationship with someone who gives you what you need and makes you feel cherished, loved, and respected.
You found your soulmate without compromising on your needs, wants, and dreams for the future.
A Clear Path to True
Healthy Love
But A Clear Path to True Healthy Love takes a different approach.
This 90-day program provides a real, actionable plan based on principles, science, spirituality and transformation technology for finding true love while helping you experience the mindset shifts you need to stop the cycle of bad dates and get clear on what you want and need in a relationship.
With this program, you are never alone in your journey.
- Jodi
San Francisco, CA
Success doesn’t just fall in your lap. So stop expecting your soulmate to!
You’ve got to do the foundational work and build a plan for success if you want to find a true healthy love that lasts a lifetime.
And I’m going to help you do just that!
As a smart, successful woman, I thought I had it all - a thriving business, great friends, fulfilling work,
meaningful volunteer projects, and a rejuvenating
spiritual practice.
But deep down, I knew I was missing something…
I longed for love, connection, and commitment.
And I knew that I could never be truly happy until I had a loving partner to share my life with.
But no matter what I tried, I still found myself in short-
lived romances that ended in heartbreak, sadness, and frustration.
I felt exhausted, disappointed, and discouraged -- like
many of you may be feeling now.
I started to fear I would never find a healthy, loving relationship with someone who loved me for who I was. Someone who shared my values and vision for the
future.
And in my mid-thirties, I worried it may be too late for
me to find my soulmate.
And the best part is -- I didn’t have to settle or compromise. I didn’t play any games or use any “tricks.” I became a confident, purposeful, and empowered dater who knew what she wanted and created a plan to make it happen.
Meeting and marrying Michael was a direct result of the approach to dating that has now become the Meet to Marry Method™ -- the same method I use to help singles find a Clear Path to True Healthy Love.
And over the past decade, I’ve been lucky enough to support thousands of singles just like you in their journey to finding a soulmate.
teach you how to adopt an empowered approach to dating, create an actionable plan for finding the
one, and support you during the process.
Bari helped me get clarity around my fears,
hangups, blockages and dreams. Then I finally met
the one; we were engaged within six months and
married seven months later. If you are serious
about finding the one, believe in yourself, by
investing in this program you are investing in
yourself and your life."
I’ve designed this 90-day program featuring a course, group & 1:1 coaching, and community to offer you the support you need each step of the way.
This isn’t a DIY course filled with lectures on how to hypothetically find love.
A Clear Path to True Healthy Love is an immersive program that provides clear and actionable strategies alongside opportunities to apply what you have learned.
Every touchpoint is designed for aha moments and breakthroughs to support you as you leave your old stuck ways of thinking about love that haven’t worked to rediscover yourself and your truth.
I’ve broken the program down into two essential phases:
Identify and fix what is holding you back from finding true love and keeping you in a cycle of unhealthy habits and relationships.
Clear out and transform the barriers to intimacy that manifest as fears, doubts, insecurities, incompletions, and limiting beliefs
Break free from the past so you're no longer dating unconsciously or recreating childhood problems in every relationship
Move forward toward a future filled with healthy, lasting, love knowing who you are and what you want.
Build a healthy mindset that allows you to open up space inside yourself for true healthy love to thrive.
Identify your true goals and aspirations for dating and finding love while getting clear on your vision for the future.
You’ll finish this phase with a newfound clarity on how you can break free from what’s keeping you stuck in love and move forward with clear goals.
Phase 2:
Become an empowered dater who is in the driver's seat of their dating life (and having fun!)
Discover how to find dates who are actually ready and looking for the same things you are and are your timeline.
Design a structured, empowered dating plan to meet the right dates in a way that fits into your schedule and lifestyle.
Learn how to elicit meaningful conversations and know with clarity who is the right one of you.
Develop a clear and powerful way to approach each date as a meaningful encounter.
Discover how to end every date with clarity so you never waste your time on uncertainties.
Create a soulmate invitation profile that invites in dates that already are dreaming of shared life with their soulmate
Receive handholding and feedback on your empowered pipeline, dating with peace of mind to ensure you're only going on dates that align with your emotional needs, vision, values, and goals
$10,000
"If you're ready to get clear on your vision, values,
and goals and find "that special someone" to
create an extraordinary life with, this is the
program for you. Through Meet to Mary. I have
met the most wonderful man in the world, and I
will be forever grateful."
Before you can begin to take an empowered approach to dating, you must do the the work to build a
foundation for love. This requires mindset and perspective shifts that will change the way you see
yourself and your relationships.
Each course module is designed to guide you through the challenging self-work that will get you one
step closer to finding love.
to Remove the Blocks to Love
Before you can find the one, you've got be the one
and that starts with powerful self work to make space for love, heal your inner child, and clear your blocks before you can create a vision for the future.
MARY ESSENTIALS
discovering the foundation for
success. This module prepares you
for your new experience as we
change the paradigm for healthy
love. You'll get new ways of viewing
this journey using real tools, daily
support, and practices for stepping
powerfully into this 90-day
experience.
READINESS
you are (and are not) truly ready for
marriage by using my special 10-
question diagnostic quiz. We'll
explore your answers in both videos
and live coaching to gain a new
clarity essential to creating the
strong healthy, vibrant foundation
you need to find true love.
discovering the foundation for
success. This module prepares you
for your new experience as we
change the paradigm for healthy
love. You'll get new ways of viewing
this journey using real tools, daily
support, and practices for stepping
powerfully into this 90-day
experience.
you are (and are not) truly ready for
marriage by using my special 10-
question diagnostic quiz. We'll
explore your answers in both videos
and live coaching to gain a new
clarity essential to creating the
strong healthy, vibrant foundation
you need to find true love.
Learn exactly how to create space
for love to thrive in your heart, mind,
and soul. And discover a real process
for "getting complete" even if you
think you are already are. You'll also
learn about a new concept of
"choosing yourself & dating
yourself"
Learn exactly how to create space
for love to thrive in your heart, mind,
and soul. And discover a real process
for "getting complete" even if you
think you are already are. You'll also
learn about a new concept of
"choosing yourself & dating
yourself"
It's essential to discover all the disempowering destructive stories you've been unconsciously telling yourself. They are the root cause of your dating and relationship challenges, once they're uncovered, you're love life will transform
unbelievably quickly. In Bye Bye Blindspots, we go beyond just identifying your blindspots as I coach you on exactly how to break out of the traps that keep you stuck. You'll create a new empowering statement to serve as you're guide in creating the love-filled future you want and deserve.
THINKING MINDSET MUSCLE
way. Then, discover and build and what you've learned to
apply daily mindset shifts that support healthy thinking
and propel you to success.
AND ARTICULATE YOUR VISION
way. Then, discover and build and what you've learned to
apply daily mindset shifts that support healthy thinking
and propel you to success.
This upbeat, eye-opening module will take your
experience to another level. Now that you've raised your
vibration, created boundaries and healed your inner
child, you are ready to create your future in a way that
embodies who you are. You'll put your vision down on
paper and create a Clarity Vision Board.
Dating Camp: The Empowered
Dating Plan to Find Your
Soulmate.
Now that you've done the real self-work to build a
foundation for a healthy love .. It's time to make a
plan for love and learn tactical strategies and new
mindset practices for making it happen.
right foundation as we change the
paradigm from Mystery Dating
where you operate on autopilot to a
brand new Conscious Empowered
Dating. You'll get a clear idea of
what's to come ahead in dating
camp.
discovered in phase 1 and create the
kind of super clear, ultra vivid
marriage vision that absolutely
essential for attracting the right
person into your life. In this amazing
uplifting and exciting process. You'll get a new set of tips, techniques and
guided meditations to keep you
focused, energized, and moving
forward.
right foundation as we change the
paradigm from Mystery Dating
where you operate on autopilot to a
brand new Conscious Empowered
Dating. You'll get a clear idea of
what's to come ahead in dating
camp.
discovered in phase 1 and create the
kind of super clear, ultra vivid
marriage vision that absolutely
essential for attracting the right
person into your life. In this amazing
uplifting and exciting process. You'll get a new set of tips, techniques and
guided meditations to keep you
focused, energized, and moving
forward.
for keeping yourself in a positive
state of mind and heart, which
serves as an attraction magnet for
the right people. Discover how to
create bubble of healthy thinking,
joy, and optimism wherever you go
with the right tools for maintaining a
positive environment.
MODULE 4: YOUR DATING ACTION PLAN
This plan will give structure to your entire dating to marry experience and keep you on a track for achieving a goal of
meeting your soulmate. Instead of feeling disempowered and lost, you'll have the steps you need to make it happen.
online dating sites. You'll learn how to decide on the right dating sites and apps for you: reinvent your dating profile so it's laser-focused, reflects your new empowered sense of self, and invites the right matches, select and get the best photograph of yourself. NO more feeling not good enough and being on a roller coaster and wasting time.
online dating sites. You'll learn how to decide on the right dating sites and apps for you: reinvent your dating profile so it's laser-focused, reflects your new empowered sense of self, and invites the right matches, select and get the best photograph of yourself. NO more feeling not good enough and being on a roller coaster and wasting time.
start your journey as a conscious, empowered dater.
You'll discover how to navigate both online and in-person
dating events while managing communication with the
right date to keep things moving. Learn how to
communicate authentically in pre-date phone calls, set up. First date that makes sense, end dates with clarity, and manage a focused and healthy dating life so it's fun and purposeful.
New York, New York
My favorite love stories are those where people overcome challenges and setbacks to find the everlasting love they deserve.
Through my programs. I have been lucky enough to experience many of there real love stories first hand with my students
self-aware woman recognized that she was still
hung up on her ex, and attracted to
uncommitted guys, and she couldn't trust
herself to pick the right man. But knowing
didn't solve the problem. She needed help taking the action.
We got to work to create a plan. . .
And in a few months she found a deep, loving,
and adventurous relationship with a wonderful
man .. Tim!
Rebekka and Tim are now married and have
two children together. And in the process ,
Rebekka has discovered a new love for herself,
more energy for her relationship and a clear,
vision for her future.
She couldn't find a man who took dating
seriously and wanted marriage.
After working with me on her blocks and fears.
she was able to build foundation of self-love
and discover what she wanted out of a
relationship.
Together, we built a plan to attract the person
into her life.
Soon, Michal met Steve, a man who makes her
feel loved and cherished as his #1 priority.
Michal and Steve now live in Gainsville.
Florida close to both of their families, and are
in a loving marriage where they do fun things
together and continue too have deep
conversation that build connection.
There are just a few examples of real love
stories that started with the Meet to Marry
approach. With my teaching and guidance
these women found lifelong love without
compromise.
success stories.
But you've got to take action if you want to summon your soulmate.
A better question .. is why not now?
There is no perfect time to fall inlove. But you've waited
long enough to find your soulmate. So why wait any
longer.
For many of us, the pandemic shown us in big ways
how precious life is, and self-isolation has given us time
to reflect on ourselves and our vision for the future.
While loneliness and desperation may start to kick in
around this time of the year, making it easy to fall back
into unhealthy dating patterns - you have another choice.
You don't have to wait to make your dreams of finding
and marrying your soulmate come true. You can start
doing the foundation work and taking empowered
actions to get you closer to finding love - TODAY.
But you have to take the next step.
In the end, YOU are the only one who has the power to change the future of your love life.
So you have two choices ...
OPTION A: You can stay stuck in a cycle of a bad
dates and relationships that go nowhere ...
soulmate just isn't in the cards
for you
As you see of your friends enjoying loving,
nurturing relationship.
doesn't exist
when you know in your heart that they are
out there waiting to meet you.
and stay lonely
Attending every holiday party and family get-
together alone (OR stuck as a third wheel with friends
when you truly desire to be with your
true love).
approaches and guesswork
That don't get any closer to true, healthy
love as you struggle on a roller coaster of
optimism to disappointment.
Pretending that you don't need
anyone
and that you're too intimidating though you
long to meet someone who is inspiring and
solid, accomplished, loves you for who you are
and supports you in everything you do.
disappointment
and you're wondering why the one you're interested
don't even notice you when you have so much
to offer.
healthy love with support the whole way ...
confidence you need to find the
person you will marry
and spend the rest of your life with.
by giving your time , attention, and love to
someone who wants the same things you do.
will help you find your soulmate
someone who loves you unconditionally and
supports your dream for the future.
yourself feeling
refreshed, alive, free and happy connected to
your joy and your essence instead of feeling
damaged or not enough.
repeating patterns from the past
or choosing wrong people and instead
designing your love life from your truth and
true value.
issues and walls that repel love
and instead, discover yourself newly by
embodying your wholeness with clarity to step
into a healthy relationship for life with
someone you can trust!
things that will get you closer to
true healthy love
as you take a new empowered and principled
approach to dating
Having the words, skills and
tools to recognize your soulmate
knowing how to nurture a conscious, healthy,
growing relationship that will continue to
expand and thrive for a lifetime enough
but happiness and everlasting love sounds pretty good to me ..
brought me results in 4 months! I have met the
One! I recommend Meet to Marry to many friends
and cannot say enough how much this program
changed my dating and my life."
-Elinor
New York, NY
We guarantee that if you put in the work and engage in
the process. You'll gain clarity and shift your mindset so
that you are able to be free of the blocks that are
keeping you stuck. Your relationships will be richer and
you will find true, healthy love. Most of our clients find
their soulmate within a few months of starting the
program and marry within a year of starting the Clear
Path to True Healthy Love.
Here are the next steps for joining the program and finding your soulmate
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• If you're ready to enroll now, Click the button below:
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program IS for you if:
You're committed to finding your soulmate and getting married.
You're sick and tired of never having received the safe, nourishing relationship you desire.
You've dated the wrong person again and again - and you're tired of dating patterns that get you no where.
You're tired of the roller coaster of optimism and disappointment that is your dating life - you're ready to get off the ride and find the one.
You're done with superficial dating advice and empty promises
You want a REAL actionable plan for finding the love of your life.
You need support in your journey to keep yourself accountable and on track to achieve your love goals.
You don't want to find your true love or experience intimacy with the right person and are content with dating around for the foreseeable future.
You're content allowing fear to keep you stuck instead of breaking down the walls and getting to a real solution.
You aren't ready to transform your love life and the way you approach yourself and your relationships.
You don't want the opportunity to be loved fully as you are.
You're not open to learning or trying a new empowered approach to dating.
You're not going to do the work to shift your mindset, stop the cycle of unhealthy habits, and find your soulmate.
years of going-nowhere dating. It's hard for me to
imagine that this could have happened without
Meet to Marry. Each step of the way, I feel
extraordinarily grateful for Bari's coaching and
the transformative exercises and advice on how to
date effectively. Bari's loving guidance supported
me as i reconnected with joy, so that i could meet
the man who loves me for me and with whom I
can be truly vulnerable."
-Alison
Brooklyn, New York
Continuing to do what you've been doing will only get
you the same results.
And if you're reading this, then there's a good chance
you're not happy with the results you've been getting.
Sooo...isn't it time to try something new?
Join my immersive 90-day program so you can
experience the types of aha's and breakthrough that
will transform your love life.
We've got your A's for you Q's
True Healthy Love is right for me?
A Clear Path True Healthy Love is ideal for any
single person who is ready to do what it takes to
find their soulmate without settling.
Compromising or lowering their standards. if
you're tired of being alone, attracting the wrong
type of people, or wasting time in relationships
that are wrong for you, your outlook on love and
relationships will be transformed in this program.
With a 90-day plan for success and support each
step of the way. A Clear Path to True Healthy Love
is perfect for those who feel like they've tried
everything but they can't seem to find the right person
for them. In this program, you will not be alone in
your journey to finding a lifetime love.
In order to see the result, you will have to do the
work. So if you are the type of person that isn't
ready to shift your mindset and start approaching dating a new way, this may not be the right
program for you.
How much does the program cost?
You have two options for investing in A Clear Path True Healthy Love. If you pay in full, you will make a on-time payment of $9,000. Or you can
make 3 payments of $3,333
Will this work for me even if I've
already been on a lot of dates?
Yes! Many of our students have been actively
dating or taking long breaks only to go back and
realize that nothing has changed, leaving them
disappointed and frustrated.
They are stuck in unconscious patterns that lead
them to date the wrong person, time and time
again - which doesn't get them any closer to
finding or marrying their soulmate.
By learning what is keeping you stuck in a cycle of
dead end dates and trying a new, empowered
approach to dating with a real 90-day plan, you can
break this pattern and move forward to find the
love of your life.
I'm in therapy, will this program be
right for me?
Yes! Many of my clients are in traditional therapy
or went to therapy in the past. Therapy is fantastic
-- it's just not the solution or a plan to find love.
What is the Meet to Marry
Method?
Founded by Bari Lyman, Meet to Marry Method is
a transformational dating method that has helped
thousands of singles get unstuck in love,
permanently break free from unconscious dating &
relationship patterns, and summon their soulmate.
What is the Meet to Marry
Method success rate?
At Meet to Marry, we've been helping singles
transform their lives, break through blockages to
live their best lives, and find their soulmates for
over 10 years.
The program starts as soon as you register. With a
full, rich curriculum, you'll learn everything you
need to break free from the past and become
future-focused and find your true love.
What is the time commitment?
A Clear Path True Healthy Love is a 90-day
program. During the 90 days, you'll complete 12
modules of curriculum and attend two weekly
virtual coaching sessions where you can get 1:1
coaching. You will also be able to participate in a
FB community with other singles and get an
accountability partner to stay on track, connected,
and in structure.
The first phase of the program happens within the
first 3-4 weeks of joining and contains 6 modules.
The second phase happens after this and offers
another 6 modules. During the entire program,
you will have weekly virtual coaching sessions that
give you a chance to apply what you've learned in
the program and work on your mindset.
The program is designed to be immersive, giving
students everything they need to become an
empowered dater and find their soulmate. Every
touchpoint is designed for aha's and
breakthrough to support students as they leave
their stuck way of thinking and rediscover
themselves and their truth.
I've done other dating programs,
Why is this one different?
Most of our clients have tried many different
things that didn't work for them because they were
"law of attraction" focused, not action oriented or
principled. Some were superficial like "get inside
the minds of men" or they were not
comprehensive. When the students is ready, the
right teacher appears. Since Bari walked in the
shoes of the singles she helps, she understands
their struggles and created a program that mirrors
the work she did to find her true love.
Not only is the Clear Path True Healthy Love
program comprehensive, but students have the
added support directly from Bari, who helps them
navigate dating in the real world with a tested
process that's effective, uplifting, and even
spiritual.
Who is Bari Lyman?
Bari Lyman is the creator of the Meet to Marry
Method, a dating method focused on helping
singles permanently break free from unconscious
dating and relationship patterns so that they can
find their soulmate.
After struggling in unhealthy relationships patterns
for many years, dating narcissistic, emotionally-
unavailable men, she discovered that being self-
aware wasn't an effective plan for breaking
childhood without healthy modeling. Unsatisfied
with her love life and approach to dating, she
realized she needed a new way. So she created it
herself!
And soon enough, Bari was the first Meet to Marry
success story. More than 19 years ago, she met
and married her husband, Michael using her new
empowered approach to dating. Since then
thousands have followed in her footsteps to enjoy
the benefits of true love and partnerships that lasts
a lifetime.
A Final note
from Bari
I'd like to take a moment to recognized you for wanting to take that next big step toward finding your soulmate. It can be very scary to take
that leap, but if you're here, then you know how vital it is to clear
the inner barriers and find true love.
I want you to know that I am here for you every step of the way.
Throughout our 90-days together (and beyond), you will receive the
coaching and support you need to transform yourself from within
and finally be able to recognize and receive healthy love.
You deserve a true, healthy love that lasts a lifetime. You exist and
therefore your soulmate exists too! Your person is out there and
we will create the alignment for you to discover each other.
You just need to do the work to open yourself up and open your
heart to the right type of person who will provide you with the love,
support, and care you need.
If you decide to join, you will experience a transformation that will
change the way you see and relate to yourself, dating, and
relationships.. like nothing you've tried before.
I walked in you're shoes and I'm here to hold your hand
and help you navigate through the process.
If you're tired wasting time on dating the wrong people
and ready to step into a space of purpose and confidence
to summon your soulmate. it's time to take the next step.
I can't wait to work with you and help you find the long-
lasting love you deserve.
With Love,
Bari
WITH BARI
"I signed up with Meet to Marry after years of
dating the wrong guys, wasting money on dating
websites and unsuccessfully working with
therapists. Once I graduated & had meet someone Bari was available to help me continue on a path
to marriage and with Bari's support I was able to
finally get married at 50 years old for the first
time. Bari helped me create my vision of marriage
and achieve it. I strongly recommend this program
for anyone looking for marriage."
Chicago, IL
"If you're interested in learning how to find what
you deserve in a relationship, look no further. I'm
a smart, successful professional, and I was
amazed at how little I knew about how to attract
my soulmate. I can't believe how little I
understood about being in a romantic relationship
where both people's needs get met. Bari changed
my approach and I learned how to love and care
for myself, and how to date in a way that made
sense. I'm happy to say that the program helped
me meet the man who I know without a doubt is
the one. Thank you, Bari!"
Columbus, OH
"I Highly recommended this program. You learn to
think and see the world in a new and healthy way,
something that's valuable in every aspect of your life.
Bari is authentic and fully committed to your
success. She leaves what she teaches. so you have a
role model and inspiration. This is a non-phony,
super straightforward approach for anyone who
really wants to find true, healthy and lasting love
❤️ (And yes, it exist!!!) Thanks to Bari i have a
wonderful husband who I met towards the end of
the program and we are raising a family."
Hamburg, Gemany
"I had always been attracted to men who were not available at an emotional level and did not fulfill my emotional needs. I had settled for unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships in the past.
In the program, I learned that believing in myself and committing to the Meet to Marry program was instrumental to my success. Once I learned to identify my core values and relationship vision, I was able to attract the right person.
Now that I’ve met my soulmate, my life has been enhanced and elevated!”
Bogata, Columbia
"Working with you in this results-oriented way helped me finally understand why I kept getting stuck in these unworkable relationships. I knew these relationships weren’t what I wanted, but I just couldn’t figure out what was going on…
You not only helped me get to the root of the problem. You helped me dissolve the problem and that - combined with the new dating system you taught me - drew me right to the man who’s now my husband.”
Los Angeles, CA
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