Stop struggling when it comes to love and
learn how to BE the one to find the ONE!
With Bari Lyman, Founder of Meet to Marry™.
It's Your Turn: Your
Soulmate is Waiting
This immersive and intimate group coaching experience
will radically transform the way you approach self-love, readiness for dating, and relationships to prepare you to receive conscious lasting love without settling or compromising.
You deserve a lifetime love that grows deeper over time
Is this YOU?
You deeply desire a partner but don’t want to
compromise what’s important to you or waste
time on the wrong people?
You’ve done the challenging work in therapy,
read all the self-help books and feel like you’re
self aware but love still eludes you…
You’re tried everything to find “The One”; online apps, match making, being set up on blind dates and even going to places you think the single men hang out, and your fed up and frustrated.
You are confused about why it hasn’t happened for you and feel like you might be better off alone living with your cat or dog.
You have difficulty with boundaries, and often attract the wrong kind of men; the ones who end up leaving or ghosting you.
You have a fantastic community of friends and people who love you, but for some reason love still hasn’t shown up and you wonder what’s wrong with you.
You want to learn how to communicate clearly and consciously to a man with clarity and not be afraid of him leaving or thinking you’re “too much.”
You want to enjoy the process of dating and stop struggling with disappointment and loneliness.
You deeply desire a conscious relationship – you want a man to see you, honor you and accept you, so you feel safe to be who you are.
You have so much love to give and you just want a partner who can receive all of your incredible gifts.
THEN THIS 8 WEEK
EXPERIENCE IS FOR YOU!
Have you been waiting years to find a partner who will love, accept and adore you?
You work hard every day to build the life you want through your career, friendships, hobbies, spirituality, and family and yet something is still missing. What’s missing is a partner to share your life with.
Maybe you’ve told yourself you should be complete without a partner, and that you don’t need anyone and yet deep down you know that life is meant to be shared with someone.
YOU want a deep, conscious connection. YOU want Soulmate Love.
And you know what?
YOU DESERVE IT!
So why haven’t you found it yet?
Perhaps the missing key is something you haven’t yet been able to discover on your own and you need a safe place to process your fears and doubts, while receiving expert guidance and support so you can gain clarity on exactly HOW to finally find your soulmate partner.
Perhaps you have some blindspots, old limiting beliefs and past trauma you haven’t yet healed or uncovered that stands in the way.
Or maybe you need to understand HOW to date from an empowered place that feels fun, inviting and inspiring.
You are not the
problem. Your approach to dating is.
You were never taught
a healthy way to find love.
When you join the Be The One program, you will spend 8 weeks transforming your entire approach to love and dating. Because, let’s be honest, if what you were doing was working, you wouldn’t still be single.
Throughout the 8 weeks, you will be supported and guided by Bari Lyman, an expert relationship coach who found her soulmate after transforming herself and letting go of all her past approaches and implementing a solid, strategic plan.
You will gain the confidence, clarity and assuredness you need to find the kind of deep, conscious love you desire.
You will heal past wounds and let go of any blocks that have been repelling love from you.
You will get the exact plan thousands of others have used to call in sweet conscious love.
The Be the One
Program Includes:
The program takes place over 8 weeks and includes 10 intimate LIVE group calls with Bari.
Each transformative module will be released weekly followed by a 60-90 minute call with Bari. These calls will provide opportunities for personalized coaching to help you get unstuck and implement what you are learning so you can create personal transformation
If you can't attend live, you'll still gain immense value from the recordings and ongoing discussions inside our private Facebook community.
This isn't just a coaching program—it's a fully immersive experience designed to support you in attracting and sustaining the love you desire.
This isn't about playing games, following dating rules, or forcing things. It's about becoming the woman who naturally attracts the love she deserves by transforming from within.
Ready to Be the One so you
can Find the ONE?
HERE'S WHAT'S WAITING FOR YOU INSIDE:
Covers every thing you need to remove your blocks to love so you can find healthy, lasting, conscious love!
Identify and uncover what is holding you back from finding true love and keeping you in a cycle of unhealthy habits and bad relationships.
Clear out and transform the barriers to intimacy that manifest as fears, doubts, insecurities, and limiting beliefs.
Move forward toward a future filled with healthy, lasting love knowing who you are and what you want.
Identify your true goals and aspirations for dating and finding love while getting clear on your vision for the future.
Create physical, mental, emotional, and space so that you're fully prepared to welcome and receive the right partner into your life.
Heal childhood patterns in a transformative Bye Bye Blindspots process and rewrite your “new love story” to nurture your inner child so that your adult self—not your wounds—is doing the choosing in love.
Remove your heart armor, walls, fears and limited beliefs that so that you embody your true essence rather than operating from self-protection, isolation and coping mechanisms that keep you stuck.
Cultivate self-trust and intuitive decision-making so that you confidently recognize the right partner when they appear and avoid wasting time on incompatible connections.
From Defeating Doubt to Marriage Readiness - Take control of your dating journey with confidence! Learn how to navigate relationships feeling safe, excited, and empowered.
Discover what you truly need in a romantic lifetime relationship beyond checklists and “must haves”. Gain clarity around your vision to attract love that is aligned with your deepest desires.
You'll Also Receive
6 transformative modules in
PRIVATE MEMBERS AREA
Each week you will have access to a new module of work that
will support you in clearing the blocks to love, while aligning you to
to receive healthy, conscious love with a new mindset and future vision.
COMMUNITY SUPPORT IN A
PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP
Connect with like-minded women who are on the same journey
as you. This private space offers invaluable support, encouragement, and
deep growth throughout the live program.
A DAILY TEXT MESSAGE
to provide encouragement and accountability.
10 weekly virtual coaching sessions
allowing you to apply what you’ve learned and
strengthen your mindset muscle.
Bye Bye Blind Spots Process
a transformative, life-changing process to FINALLY heal and let go of the
unconscious blocks that have been preventing you from
finding and receiving healthy, conscious, lasting love.
Accountability partnership
to help you stay on track and connected during the process.
Closing Graduation Call
Join Bari and a panel of incredible grads as they share
their perspectives on relationships, commitment, and what
creates a strong, lasting partnership.
Discounted ticket to an Exclusive
One-Day In-Person Retreat
As a Be the ONE graduate, you’ll be invited to a
transformational, one-day live retreat—an unforgettable
opportunity for connection, growth, and expansion ($997 value).
And MUCH more!
Keep reading and scroll down for
more details or if you intuitively know this is
for you now, trust that and book your call now.
“Meet to Marry is the best coaching program I've ever done. Bari takes you from A to Z in the land of relationship and dating. She holds your hand throughout the very simple, Imagestraightforward process to find your soulmate. Guys, this system honestly works. I met my man, five months after starting her program. She's the real deal and so is the whole Meet to Marry Method”
- Jennifer
New York, New York
MEET YOUR LOVE STRATEGIST
About Bari Lyman
Hi! I’m Bari, the creator of Meet to Marry™, Get Unstuck in Love And over 20 years ago, I was in your shoes...
As a smart, successful woman, I thought I had it all - a thriving business, great friends, fulfilling work, meaningful volunteer projects, and a rejuvenating spiritual practice.
But deep down, I knew I was missing something… I longed for love, connection, and commitment. And I knew that I could never be truly happy until I had a loving partner to share my life with.
But no matter what I tried, I still found myself in short-lived romances that ended in heartbreak, sadness, and frustration.
I felt exhausted, disappointed, and discouraged -- like many of you may be feeling now.
I started to fear I would never find a healthy, loving relationship with someone who loved me for who I was.
Someone who shared my values and vision for the future. I worried it may be too late for me to find my soulmate.
So I decided to try a new (and different) approach, and I created a strategic plan to find my man! I had a plan for everything else in life, why would love be any different?
And the best part is -- I didn’t have to settle or compromise. I didn’t play any games or use any “tricks.” I became a confident, purposeful, and empowered dater who knew what she wanted and had the plan to make it happen.
Meeting and marrying Michael was a direct result of the approach to dating that has now become the Meet to Marry Method™ -- the same method I use inside my Be the One program.
Over the past decade, I’ve been lucky enough to support thousands of singles just like you in their journey to finding a soulmate.
Now it's your turn!
I’d love to help you break free from the challenges that are keeping you stuck in love.
Whether it's pain from past relationships, giving up on dating all together or feeling lost on where to start.
I’ll teach you how to adopt an empowered approach to dating, create an actionable plan for finding the one, and support you during the process.
I’ve designed this 12-week program to feature transformative curriculum in a private members area, personalized loveseat coaching, Q&A and an incredible community to offer you the support you need each step of the way.
This isn’t a DIY course filled with lectures on how to hypothetically find love.
Be the One is an immersive program that provides clear and actionable strategies alongside opportunities to apply what you have learned.
Every touchpoint is designed for aha moments and breakthroughs to support you as you leave your old stuck ways of thinking about love that haven’t worked to rediscover yourself and your truth.
It’s a real strategic plan to help you get Unstuck, so you can Be the ONE to Find the ONE!
See for Yourself...
{real life testimonials}
Jodi 46, divorced, thought there were no men worth marrying in San Francisco, till she met Dennis. Together they have built a life and business together.
Lori, 54 is a double divorcee & single mom who met men who weren't nice to her & did not share her interests. Now she is with Chris her soulmate, who loves her and and shares her love of travel, music and business.
Jacqueline 54 a single mother of 4 from Montana was divorced after 2 devastating marriages. During her Meet to Marry program Jacqueline met Jonathan, the love of her life, and a divorced single dad; they were married during the Pandemic and now live in picturesque Jackson Wyoming.
Tina a 34 year old, single never married, high achieving entrepreneur who was successful in almost everything, but love alluded her. She felt there just weren't any eligible men for her in her hometown; Washington D.C.. until she joined Meet to Marry. then she met the love of her life Marvin, who happened to live down the street. .
Sarah 37 from NYC, struggled to find love, there were simply no men out there who valued and cherished her and there was not even a hope of her achieving her Dream of getting Married in Israel. She met Bari, joined Meet to Marry and guess what happened next.....?
Azu a high achieving 35 year old marketing consultant from Austin Texas attracted, bad boys; All she wanted was a love and family. Finally Azu said... ENOUGH... and joined Meet to Marry where Bari helped her identify what was getting in her way of finding true love. With obstacles to love removed, Azu met Jesus, and they are married with their first Child.
Erica, a 40-year-old wealth advisor from Chicago thought she had it all—until she realized her career had become a placeholder for a deeper, more fulfilling life. Unsure of how to find 'the one,' she was introduced to Bari and the Meet to Marry program through friends who had transformed their own love lives. Soon after Erika met Eric, the love of her life. They are engaged and their wedding is planned for June 25, 2025
Hayley a high achieving tech tech executive from Australia, living in San Francisco is accomplished in her career, but couldn't understand why her dating life was not. After graduating from Meet to Marry, Hayley met Drew now their married and Drew supports her work and they learn and grown together. Through our work together, she got courageous enough to create anew startup called Bubbl
Jen, a kindergarten teacher was living in NYC and super tired of dating and meeting low quality men. She really wanted to get married but she kept choosing emotionally unavailable men. Today she is happily married to her soulmate Erik and they have 2 beautiful children.
Monica dated a go-nowhere guy and spent years trying to change him. After doing Meet to Marry, she met Michael and got Married on October 2024. Monica says Michael is more than she ever imagined!
Pamela, 54 years old and divorced found love on JDate through the transformation she experienced in our program. She and Steve got married in 2018 and live in Florida enjoying life and their family.
Nancy is 71 from North Dakota was married for 48 years until her partner suddenly passed away. Her world was turned upside down and she never thought she'd find love again. Then she met Dan and they enjoying a connected life Part 2!
Jen a 35 year old teacher from the South of England dated men who treated her very poorly. After doing our Meet to Marry program and becoming an empowered dater, she met Dan they are engaged to be married in November 2025!
Tina is a high achieving tech executive, born in India and living in America. She was dating emotionally unavailable men until she changed her trajectory through our program. She aand Levy got married in 2023!
Is Be the One program for you?
The Be The One program is your opportunity to heal on a deeper level, gain powerful perspective, and design a self-honoring path to calling in a healthy, loving relationship. You’ll gain clarity on what truly matters to you, learn how to embody your true essence and and bring to you a man who is worthy of your heart, body, and gifts. You’ll also learn the art of receiving, conscious communication and heart resonance giving you deeper insight into being full aligned to nurture a conscious relationship.
You don’t have to do this alone. You’ll be guided by Bari Lyman—a love embodiment mentor who lives the principles of healthy, conscious love. In a supportive community of like-minded women, you’ll be held, encouraged, and empowered every step of the way.
This program was created for women who desire not just any relationship, but an extraordinary one —one built on deep self-awareness, aligned values, and true partnership. If you’re ready to step fully into the love you deserve, Be The One is for you.
“If you’re ready to get clear on your vision, values, and goals and find “that special someone” to create an extraordinary life with, this is the program for you. Through Meet to Marry™, I have met the most wonderful man in the world, and I will be forever grateful.”
- Yael
Phoenix, AZ
What you will learn
During our live group calls, you will have an opportunity to share, receiving love seat coaching and healthy feedback while gaining insight into who you truly are and what you truly desire.
Create and Embrace a Future Vision
while stepping into your true
feminine essence.
Bring Your Heart into
full alignment to receive
conscious love with a
lifetime, committed partner
Clear any unconscious patterns
of fear, scarcity or rigidity
holding you back from living fully
in and out of relationship
How to call in a man who is
aligned with your core values,
lifetime goals and worldviews
Discover effective ways of
communicating your truth
and vision from a place of joy
and curiosity
Clear up and permanently
heal past trauma and
parental wounding to open
your heart to receive
what you truly deserve
Receive unconditional love
and support from Bari and
your community.
Be seen, understood, accepted, heard
and known for who you are
You are far too powerful, loving and beautiful and whole to live without extraordinary love. To go on repeating the same dating or relationships patterns. To spend another birthday or holiday alone. Too many women are listening to bad dating advice and continuing to live with broken and empty hearts. It doesn’t have to be this way for you!
Live Call Schedule
PROGRAM KICK OFF CALL
Monday, July 2nd at 12 Noon ET
PROGRAM CALLS
Monday, July 7, 2025 at 6pm ET
Monday, July 14, 2025 at 6pm ET
Monday, July 21, 2025 at 6pm ET
Monday, July 28, 2025 at 6pm ET
Monday, August 4, 2025 at 6pm ET
Monday, August 11, 2025 at 6pm ET
Monday, August 18, 2025 at 6pm ET
Monday, August 25, 2025 at 6pm ET
Monday, September 8, 2025 at 6pm ET
GRADUATION CEREMONY
Monday, September 15, 2026 at 6pm ET
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This option includes all of the calls and bonuses of the Be the One program, and includes four 1:1 calls with Bari including a private Bye Bye Blindspots experience.
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We've got A's for your Q's
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know if Be the One is right for me?
Be the One is ideal for any single person who is ready to break out of patterns and open up to finding their soulmate without settling, compromising, or lowering their standards. If you’re tired of being alone, attracting the wrong people, or wasting time in relationships that are wrong for you, your outlook on love and relationships will be transformed in this program. With a 90-day plan for success and support each step of the way, Be the One is perfect for those who feel like they’ve tried everything but can’t seem to find the right person for them. In Be The One, yyou will not be alone in your journey to finding a lifetime love.
Will this work for me even if I’ve already been on a lot of dates or taken breaks from dating?
Yes! Many of our students have been actively dating or have taken long breaks from dating only to go back and realize that nothing has changed, leaving them feeling disappointed and frustrated. They have been stuck in unconscious patterns that lead them to date the wrong person, time and time again -- which hasn't gotten them any closer to finding or marrying their soulmate. By learning what is keeping you stuck in a cycle of dead end dating and relationships and embracing a new, empowered approach to yourself, love and relationships with a real plan, you can break this pattern and move forward to find the love of your life.
I’m in therapy, will this program be right for me?
Yes! Many of my clients are in traditional therapy or went to therapy in the past. Therapy is fantastic -- it’s just not the solution or a plan to find love.
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What is the Meet to Marry Method™?
Founded by Bari Lyman, Meet to Marry Method™ is a transformational dating method that has helped thousands of singles get unstuck in love, permanently break free from unconscious dating & relationship patterns, and summon their soulmate.
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When does the program start?
The program kick off is Monday, July 2nd at 12 Noon ET and session one is on Monday July 7th at 6pm ET.
What is the time commitment?
Be the One is an 8 week committment. During this time, you’ll complete 6 modules of curriculum and attend a weekly 60 minute virtual coaching session where you can receive coaching and feedback.
You will also be able to participate in a FB community with other singles in Be the One and have an accountability partner to stay on track, connected, and in structure.
During the entire program, you will have weekly virtual coaching sessions on zoom, love seat coaching, love work, exercises and worksheets so you give you a chance to apply what you’ve learned in the program and work on your mindset.
The program is designed to be immersive, giving students everything they need to feel empowered and ready for conscious love. Every touchpoint is designed for aha’s and breakthroughs to support students as they leave their stuck ways of thinking, discover themselves, their true essence, and a clear vision for love.
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I’ve done other things before! How is this different?
Be the One is an 8 week transformational experience. During this time, you’ll complete 6 modules of curriculum and attend a weekly virtual coaching sessions where you'll receive coaching and feedback.
You will also be able to participate in a FB community with other singles and get an accountability partner to stay on track, connected, and in structure.
The program is designed to be immersive and experiential. Every touchpoint is designed for aha’s and breakthroughs to support students as they leave their stuck ways of thinking and rediscover themselves and their truth.
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Questions?
